As an adult, I have a really hard time saying no. I volunteer to drive my friends when they go bar hopping. I joined the Board of Directors of my state professional organization. I’m the Secretary/Treasurer of my Property Owner’s Association.
And *most of the time* I am happy with those decisions to step in and join the effort. But sometimes they are more headache than they are worth, and I wish I had the nerve to say no or to quit if I’m already involved.